People always ask me how to become more psychic or how I do what I do? The answer is simple (but don’t mistake simple with easy): Learn To Become Unconditional.
The Merriam-Webster Dictionary defines the word unconditional as: “not conditional or limited”
Here’s the deal… I know that there are a million books out there describing just about every conceivable method for developing psychic ability, but the truth be told; you only need one thing and that’s an unconditional heart and mind. That being said, its far from easy! However, it’s also more than possible and you don’t have to become a monk or a holy person to get there.
How does embracing unconditionalism grant you better psychic ability? The same way living an unconditional life provides you with so many other amazing benefits and opportunities. 1) By making it unnecessary to judge or to condemn. 2) By also making it unnecessary to spend your time in any way other than loving people and being loved back by them. 3) By tearing down limiting mind sets and opening you up to the world and everything it has to offer.
Is it scary? YES. Is it something that a lot of people are doing today? NO. Is it something that everyone is capable of? NO… and I’ll explain why. Lets say your child is always getting into trouble. Their friends are encouraging in less than desirable ways. Their plans for the future include you and your bank account and no matter what you say or do to provide an example or set up healthy limits, your child always ends up in trouble anyway. Why do you think that is? I’ve had parents argue that its because they failed as role models or because their child is always the one person in the world with plain bad luck… by the way, I don’t believe in bad luck or good luck for that matter.
It actually has nothing to do with any of those things. Think about this: Why is it that your friends kids have been through much of the same things as your kids and they seem to respond to the examples around them while your child is off in never never land? I have a clue for you…. You cant outsmart GOD. What did I just say? I said you cant outsmart GOD. You heard me the first time.
Who are you to interrupt the educational pathway that your child or whoever is walking down that God has set before them??? YOU CANT! If someone in life is supposed to learn a particular lesson, then that lesson will be learned and until it is learned, there is absolutely nothing you can do to stop it.
In the mean time, what happens to you? Your usually standing within feet of the commotion and scrutinizing every last detail. It wears you out and before you know it, your repeating the process all over again with either the same person/situation or a new one. I’m stressed out from just writing about it; let alone being in the middle of that madness!
Being unconditional does not mean that we just adopt this whimsical do as you please attitude and let people do whatever they want. It doesn’t mean that you wont have opinions or feel pressure because of what’s happening around you. Being unconditional means that you are open to understanding all things and that you invest the time and effort into finding the answers that help you understand those things. In other words, instead of pulling your hair out one strand at a time over your child not “getting it”, you would separate yourself from the instinctual judgments and direct your attention to a place of possibilities.
By stepping back and observing the situation from a different perspective you might see that there is actually a pattern taking place in your child’s life. A pattern that tells a story about where they have been, where they are now and perhaps even where they are going in the future. Sometimes the outcome isn’t good… sometimes the outcome is amazing. Either way, your unconditional understanding of the situation lessons your judgments and in-turn lessons your stress and even helps to provide you with a sense of clarity about the future.
When we apply this unconditional understanding of possibilities to our own lives, we begin to be in-touch with the infinite and that gives way to an electrical charge of psychic phenomenon. Some people get psychic readings and the damn psychic turns out to be a Negative Nancy. Guess why…?? Because the psychic is conditional and sees the world as such. These types of so called psychics are nothing more than an equally frustrated person who couldn’t turn on a light switch let alone an unconditional mind set.
Homework anyone? Next time you find yourself expressing something negative, ask yourself about the bigger picture in question. What is the larger lesson here? Will learning from this help me in the future? How will I be able to help someone else as a result of going through this? Do I become a better person for understanding this situation/person instead of judging it? All these types of questions will help you to gain a more unconditional understanding of the present and in-turn open you up to the possibilities of the future.
When we judge others we close that psychic door and leave ourselves vulnerable to the negativity of this world. When we ask questions instead of condemning we’re allowing God to come in and infuse us with psychic knowledge and unconditional understanding. Think about how your supposed to pay attention to the good if your always engaged with the negative? I’ve been a professionally working psychic my whole life but I only have so much ability to focus. If I’m all caught up in judgements and anger, even I will miss out on the positive!
Unconditionalism is the way to being a better person, a better spouse, a better parent and yes, even a better psychic.
Happiness to all,
~ Jeremy Mazák JeremyM.org
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